Thursday, April 8, 2010

Uh oh

Today was a very busy day. It started off kind of slow in the morning. I started going through all of my messages again and deleting the ones that I surely didn't want to reply to. AG wasn't online so I didn't hear from him all day. As a girl I'm over analyzing wondering if maybe he was "hiding" from me online. That's ridiculous, right? Whatever - I'm a girl and that's what we do! Let's see ... I have one new email buddy who's a loan officer. I guess for consistency we'll call him "loan guy"? I have two new IM buddies - "writer guy" and my new Facebook buddy who we'll call "concert guy" because like me he's traveled to a venue just to see a band.

Now let's just see if I can keep these guys straight! Loan guy or LG emailed me a little. He's new to the site, too. Nothing terribly exciting there, but I thought I'd nickname him now just in case. Writer guy or WG and I talked online for a bit this afternoon. He used to be in real estate, got bored, and decided he wanted to write a book. Ehhhh ... he sounds sort of boring to me. Don't get me wrong - I love to read, but his book is about politics and well, that's just not one of my strong interests. He's traveled to a few different countries as well. He wanted me to send him a pic of me since my Doppelganger isn't too clear. I don't know. I'm not sure I'm into him yet. Yes I know, I'm being mean again. But really? A writer? I know ... I'm weird and you're asking "Well isn't that what you're doing here? Writing?" We'll see what he has to say tomorrow. After all I might be giving Cowboy a chance, right? Well I think I am anyway ... you would think I'd be a little more picky. I'm only potentially giving him a chance because his profile picture was cute.

Concert guy or CG from now on ... he likes to travel, likes to travel to specific venues to see concerts - points for that, and he owns his own business. While working for the man doesn't take away points, this is definitely a bonus. Extra points? Hmmm ... I don't know. It will depend on whether or not he starts to brag about his success. Time will tell. He asked me if I had a type. I don't know! I think I know more of what I don't like than what I do like. He said he would be interested in chatting with me later and to send him a text message (gave me his number). I'm honestly not in the mood for new people tonight. I'm exhausted from this week.

Out of State guy (OOSG) messaged me again today. He's a huge flirt! I told him I thought he was a player. He said players told lies to get into girl's pants and he's been nothing but honest with me. I suppose that's true. He's such a flirt though. I flirted back and for giggles told him that he needed to watch out because what was probably going to happen was that I was going to be his online buddy for years, then he'd fall in love with me and we'd finally meet, get married, have kids and live happily ever after. He laughed. I'm glad he has a sense of humor about that. I don't think he thinks I'm a weirdo - at least not a harmful one. It's sort of nice to have another outlet to discuss dates/life and not have to worry about being or feeling judged because he doesn't really know me. He's starting to get to know me pretty quickly though.

I've been asked whether I like AG or CDG better. Honestly, right now, I have no idea. I can't figure AG out and there seems to be this mysterious side to him. Forgive me, but damnit I like a challenge - it'll probably end up being the death of me. He's a brunette, too. I think I'm finding that I like brunettes over dirty blondes, but I'm not 100% sure on that yet. On the other hand, CDG seems rather genuine. It's still too early to tell, but he seems to have his life pretty well figured out. In guess in reality, who really has their stuff all figured out? I know I don't - I might never.

Well I sent AG a text message just to say what's up. I asked where he was today, if he had a rough day, glad tomorrow's Friday and have a good evening. No response. Maybe he's out on a date? lol Conversely, CDG bbm'd me asked me if I was doing ok, asked if I had an ok time last night and if I had any interest in getting together again and said he was completely cool with honesty. Yes, I liked him, I'm just trying not to get all gaga so soon. I'm still nervous about all of this. I replied yes and thank you again and to let me know what his schedule was like. He hasn't responded yet so I will patiently wait until he checks his calendar. I'm in no rush.

I now have some plans for this weekend, but none involving any of these boys. I understand CDG for having company, but AG ... I have no clue. O'well. By the way, I haven't seen any comments yet. Feel free to post your thoughts. Right now I've met both AG and CDG ... it's no competition by any means, but I'd be interested in hearing who has more points and why from someone else's perspective. :)

2 comments:

  1. Hi it's me Pearl LOL :)

    So AG was MIA? He either got swamped with work, which we know he does (that's why date #1 got cancelled right? ~ I can't keep it all straight) or he's working the scene too or he's weirding out...hard to know, I say give it a few days. Then it's time to take your relationship to the next level...a full meal, no more drinks that don't involve alcohol, um can you tell I'm craving a margarita tonight?!?!?! hehehehe

    CDG sounds really cool, for the whole dinner after workout, shows he's not afraid of having a meal with someone new, shows confidence....gets bonus points in my book for checking in on you today, 2nd date request very cool!
    Too early to tell who's a front runner, I say if they are fun to be around then have fun!!!
    What do they say in "the" movie? Don't look for Mr Right, just look for Mr Right NOW, then if he's cool, the "NOW" will just fall away :) hehehehe

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  2. lol - I'm not even looking for Mr. Right NOW! It would just be nice to hang out with men that aren't my very close friends for a change. Anything else that comes along from that is just bonus. I'm just glad I'm getting out there and being social for a change.

    By the way - AG is still MIA.

    As for the rest, I'm not ready to "name the puppy" quite yet ... ;)

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