The Latest

Sunday nights are busy for the site. Mondays don't prove much different - fifteen new messages since last post. One from a guy working the scary movie angle again. That's cool, but I don't like him. I think I'll just delete him. One guy says "If I see another profile entitled 'lookin for mister right, not mister right now' I just might shoot myself." Cute, but ehhh ... I thought it was looking for Mr. Right Now and if he turns into Mr. Right that was just bonus? What do I know? Another prize ... "I am visiting for 2 weeks and am looking for someone to hang out with. Interested?" I think I just read booty call from that ... thoughts? Another guy says "long time no see." Yeah, I don't even remember this guy. For the love of God, I hate guys and their come hither look!! Also, I hate when guys initiate with "How are you doing today?" That honestly gives me nothing to go by. They need to be more creative. For the record, it's nice to be on this site and not be the one doing the chasing. Granted there have been some fairly cute guys in my "I'm curious" searches. I haven't initiated yet though since I'm doing all right so far. As many messages as I've received, I still want to say to some of these repeats that I'm STILL not interested! Here's a good one: "Hi sexy. You look like my next friend." It's cute, but he's gross. DELETE!

The latest with CDG ... well I hadn't heard much from him since our makeout session. That could be normal or I could be reading into things. Who knows? Taking advice from my guy friend that men want to feel needed/wanted, too I decided to bbm him and see what he was up to last night and see if he wanted to do something. He replied "Are you cooking?" I owed him a dinner, so I checked the pantry and sure enough I had some stuff to make pasta so I replied sure. He came over around 7:30 and we ate, sat in my backyard and talked for a bit, then once the mosquitoes came out we headed inside to watch a little TV - not one move. What gives? He had told me earlier in the day that he thought he might be coming down with something, that his throat was feeling a little scratchy earlier in the day. I blew it off at the time. Just before he left ... at 9 ... he leaned over, gave me a kiss on the mouth and said thanks for having him over. He said he didn't want to get me sick before I left on vacation (tomorrow). Umm ... ok. Since when has that ever stopped anyone? Is it just me? I'm a little confused. I guess it's been a while since I've been in a relationship and we know this whole dating thing is new to me, but shouldn't there be a tiny bit of action going on? That was technically date six after all if you count movie night. Thoughts out there in cyberspace??

In other news AG has been IM'ing me again. On Monday he mentioned that he was still out-of-state until today. He also said that he really wanted to see me when he got back. Today we chatted for a bit and he tried to convince me that I sent him a drunk text on Saturday. It was kind of cute, but I know better than that. I might drunk text and be silly, but I've never sent a racy message. I know ... I'm boring that way. Sorry! During his trying to convince me he said something to the effect of that's why he said he wanted to see me when he got home. He was rather flirty today - it was definitely interesting to say the least. Later in the conversation I said that I had just assumed he'd put me in the friend category. He said we could talk about that later if I wanted to. I told him I was in no rush as I was just taking things day by day. He mentioned that he really liked to take things slow as there was no turning back time or going backwards. That makes sense, but wow ... I bet if I told him I wanted to give it up he'd be right on board. I'm speaking from most perspectives of men (sorry!). Later this afternoon he said he wanted to see me this evening. I had plans to come home, pedicure, and pack for tomorrow, but sure, why not? Just as soon as he said that something came up with work again. I told him I'd text him after my workout and confirm just in case he had to back out. Sure enough he did. Lack of interest, better offer, or truly work-related? Who knows? I've been fine thus far without him. We're supposed to catch up when I get back.

WG sent me some text messages yesterday and IM'd me again today. Yesterday he was wondering if he should be worried that he was trying to date me yet I was on the date site every night. UGH!! I was on because I was talking to a cutie first of all, second of all ... ummm ... isn't HE online, too??? Annoying!! He mentioned that he would be patient and think of me while I'm gone. I keep thinking I have to let him down gently, but maybe I just need to let him down. This being new I have no idea how to, but I'll figure out it. I'll probably end up being a huge bitch in the process, but I'm not sure how else to do it.

There's a new guy ... he watches lots of sports so we'll call him cute sports guy or CSG for short. He really is a cutie - nice eyes, nice teeth, and a beautiful smile. He lives somewhat further from me, but hey, we can make it work if we like each other, right? Our first date is supposed to be next Saturday and we're supposed to do drinks and a movie. I'm excited about it. I'm trying not to get my hopes up since it's more than a week away (still time to cancel) and I don't want to have any expectations whatsoever and potentially end up disappointed. I need to chill just a little bit.

Well, I'm on vacation until Sunday evening. Unless anything eventful happens while I'm away I won't post until I get back.